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Faida: Aitedaal par rehne ka matlab ye hai ke Quran-e-Shareef ki tilaawat ka ehtemaam bhi kare aur riyaakaron ki tarah tajweed aur hurf ki adayegi mein tajawuz na kare. |
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Qabar Par Mitti Daalte Waqt Ki Dua
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Faida: Matlab ye hai ke jis tarah kunwe mein gire hue ount ko dum se pakad kar nikaalne ki koshish karna apne aapko befaida mushaqqat mein daalna hai, kyunke is tareeqe se ount ko kunwe se nahi nikala jaasakta isi tarah qaum ki nahaq madad karna bhi befaida hai, kyunke is tareeqe se qaum ko sahi raaste par nahin daala jaasakta. (Bazl-ul-Majhud) |
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Faida: Zuban se takleef pahunchane mein kisi ka mazaaq udana, tohmat lagana, bura bhala kehna aur haath se takleef pahunchane mein kisi ko nahaq maarna, kisi ka maal zulman lena waghaira umoor shaamil hain. (Fath-ul-Bari) |
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Faida: Phool jaisi kam qeemat cheez ko qubool karne se agar inkaar kiya jaye to iska bhi andesha hai ke pesh karne waale ko khayaal ho ke meri cheez kam qeemat hone ki wajah se qubool nahi ki gayi aur isse uski dilshikni ho. (Maariful Hadees) |
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Faida: Baaz shaarheen ne Hadees ka ye matlab bayan kiya hai ke jo ehsaan karne waale bandon ka shukar guzaar nahi hota wo na shukri ki is aadat ki wajah se Allah Ta'ala ka shukar guzaar bhi nahi hota. |
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Faida: Rasulullah ﷺ ne is Hadees-e-shareef mein husn-e-muasharat ke ek mukhtasar usool bata diya ke ek insaan mein agar koi buri aadat hai to us mein kuch khoobiyan bhi hongi, aisa kaun hoga jis mein koi burayi na ho ya koi khoobi na ho. Lihaaza buraiyon se chashm poshi ki jaye aur khoobiyon ko dekha jaye. |
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Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 82 Final Part
Maa baap ki yeh zimmedaari hai ke woh bachchon ko deeni taaleem dein, un ki behtareen tarbiyat karein, un ko Islaami akhlaaq wa aadaat sikhaayein, un ke aqaaid wa khayaalaat ko durust karein, unhein sunnat wa shari'at ke mutaabiq zindagi guzaarne ki targeeb dein, un ke andar aakhirat ki fikr paida karein, saat saal ki umr mein unhein namaaz padhne ki taakeed karein aur das saal ki umr ho jaaye, to namaaz na padhne par un par sakhti karein, taake woh qayaamat ke maidaan mein Allah ki pakad aur jahannam ke azaab se bach jaayein.
Qur'aane Kareem mein Allah Ta'ala farmaate hain: Aye Imaan Waalo ! apne aapku aur apne ghar waalon ko (Jahannam ki) aag se bachaao, jis ka eindhan Insaan aur patthar honge. (Sura e Tahreem: 6)
Hazrat Ali (RA) farmaate hain: Apne ghar waalon ko jahannam ki aag se bachaane ka matlab yeh hai ke un ki tarbiyat karo aur un ko taaleem do. (Tafseer ibne Kaseer: 8/167)
✺ Alhamdulillah Completed ✺
Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 81
Nikaah ho jaane ke baad biwi apne maa baap, bhai bahen aur poora khaandaan chhod kar apne shohar ke ghar aati hai, is ghar mein us ke liye har shakhs ajnabi hota hai, ab use poori zindagi isi ghar mein guzaarna hai, pehle hi din se bahu yeh koshish karti hai ke mere shohar ke ghar ka har fard mujh se kis tarah khush ho jaaye aur mujhe bhi apne hi ghar ka fard samajhne lage, is ki khaatir woh apne shohar se lekar saas, khusr aur nand tak ki khidmat apni zimmedaari na hone ke bawajood dil o jaan se karti hai aur unhein apna banane ke liye har kaam ko behtar se behtar tareeqe par waqt se pehle anjaam dene ki bharpoor koshish karti hai, lihaaza ghar waalon ko chaahiye ke woh bahu ki is khidmat ki qadr karein aur us ka behtar se behtar badla dene ki koshish karein, us ki khidmat ki ta'areef karke us ka dil khush rakhein aur ghar ko khushgawaar banane ke Liye Rasoolullah ﷺ ne jin huqooq ki taaleem di hai, un par amal karke ghar ko aabaad karein.
Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 80
Miyaan biwi ki zindagi hamesha ek haalat par qaaim nahein rehti, balke us mein mukhtalif mod aur utaar chadhaao aate rehte hain, lihaaza aise mauqon par jahaan tak ho sake, donon ko ek doosre ka lihaaz karte huwe aapas hi mein samjhauta kar lena chaahiye aur donon ko khuda se darte huwe ek doosre ke huqooq ikhlaas aur aapasi khair khawaahi ke saath ada karte rehna chaahiye.
Qur'aan mein Allah Ta'ala farmaate hain: Aur agar kisi aurat ko apne shohar ki taraf se ziyaadti ya bezaari ka andesha ho, to un miyaan biwi ke liye is mein koi muzaaiqa nahein ke woh aapas ke ittifaaq se kisi qism ki sulah kar lein aur sulah kar lena behtar hai. (Sura-e-Nisa: 128)
Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 79
Bahot si martaba miyaan biwi ke darmiyaan jhagde ki koi aisi baat nahein hoti, jo un ke ta'alluqaat mein bigaad ka sabab bane, lekin kuch log un ke darmiyaan ghus kar galat fehmiyaan paida kar dete hain aur ek ki baat doosre tak pahoncha kar chugalkhori karte hain aur unhein ladaane ki koshish karte hain. Aakhir kaar un mein alaahidgi ho jaati hai, agar koi shakhs aisi harkat kare to miyaan biwi ko chaahiye ke woh aqalmandi ka muzaahira kerein aur us ki baaton ko koi ehmiyat na dein, balke un mein se jis ke paas woh chugalkhori karne aaye, to use chaahiye ke woh us ka munh band karde aur aainda ke liye un ke muaamlaat mein taang adaane se sakhti se mana kare, chugalkhori karne waaLa aur miyaan biwi ko ladaane waala aadmi shaitaan hota hai, use apne is bure kaam se tauba karni chaahiye.
Rasoolullah ﷺ ne chugalkhor ke baare mein yeh irshaad farmaaya: Chugal khor Jannat mein daakhil nahin hoga. (Muslim: 290)
Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 78
Saal ke kisi bhi maheene mein shaadi karne mein koi harj nahein hai, awaam mein yeh baat mash'hoor ho gayi hai ke safar ke maheene mein nahoosat hai aur is maheene mein shaadi be barkati aur museebaton ka sabab hoti hai, haalaanke Islaam mein na koi maheena manhoos hai aur na hi kisi maheene mein shaadi karne se mana kiya gaya hai, safar ke maheene ko manhoos samajhna aur us se badshagooni lena durust nahein hai.
Hazrat Abu Huraira (RA) se riwaayat hai ke Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaaya: Bimaari khud ba khud ek doosre ko nahein lagti, bad shagooni ki koi haqeeqat nahein hai, na hi murdon par ullu bolte hain aur na hi safar ke maheene mein koi nahoosat hai. (Bukhari: 5707, Mafhum)
Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 77
Waalidain ko chaahiye ke bachchon ke saath mil jul kar rahein, un ke saath shafqat aur muhabbat ka muaamla karein, baat baat par un ko na daantein, agar bachche koi galat kaam kar dein, unhein na maarein balke un ko pyaarwa muhabbat se samjhaayein, chhoti chhoti baat par daantne aur maarne se bachche ke andar chid chida pan aur gusse ki aadat paida ho jaati hai.
Ek martaba ek sahaabi Huzoor ﷺ ke paas aaye, us waqt Aap ﷺ Hazrat Hasan (RA) ko pyaar kar rahe the, un sahaabi ko yeh dekh kar ta'ajjub huwa, unhon ne kaha: ya Rasoolallah! Aap bhi bachchon ko pyaar karte hain, mere 10 bachche hain, lekin main ne to kabhi kisi ek ko bhi pyaar nahein kiya. Aap ﷺ ne un ki taraf nazar uthaayi aur farmaaya: Jo (doosron par) raham nahein karta, us par bhi raham nahein kiya jaata. (Bukhari: 5997, Abu Huraira (RA))