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Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 55
Achchhe Maqsad Se Nikaah Karne Waale ki Allah Ta'ala Madad Farmaate Hain
Nikaah ka sab se bada maqsad insaan ki iffat wa ismat ki hifaazat karna hai, jo har insaan ke andar khwah mard ho ya aurat fitri taur par maujood hai, usi ki hifaazat ke liye Islaam ne Zina aur muta'lliqaate zina, maslan: bepardagi, besharmi ki baaton aur mard aur aurton ke ikhtilaat ko haraam qaraar diya aur mard aurat donon ko hukm diya ke woh donon nikaah hi ke zariya apna fitri ta'alluq qaaim rakhein.
Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Aye naujawaano ki jamaat! tum mein jo nikaah karne ki taaqat rakhta ho, use chaahiye ke zaroor nikaah kar le, kyun ke woh nigaah aur sharmgaah ki hifaazat ka muassir zariya hai. (Bukhari: 5066)
Ek Hadees mein hai 3 Logon ki madad Allah Ta'ala ke zimme hai, un mein se ek shakhs woh hai, jo iffat wa paakdaamni yaani haraamkaari se bachne ke liye nikaah kare. (Tirmizi: 1655)
Nikaah ka sab se bada maqsad insaan ki iffat wa ismat ki hifaazat karna hai, jo har insaan ke andar khwah mard ho ya aurat fitri taur par maujood hai, usi ki hifaazat ke liye Islaam ne Zina aur muta'lliqaate zina, maslan: bepardagi, besharmi ki baaton aur mard aur aurton ke ikhtilaat ko haraam qaraar diya aur mard aurat donon ko hukm diya ke woh donon nikaah hi ke zariya apna fitri ta'alluq qaaim rakhein.
Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Aye naujawaano ki jamaat! tum mein jo nikaah karne ki taaqat rakhta ho, use chaahiye ke zaroor nikaah kar le, kyun ke woh nigaah aur sharmgaah ki hifaazat ka muassir zariya hai. (Bukhari: 5066)
Ek Hadees mein hai 3 Logon ki madad Allah Ta'ala ke zimme hai, un mein se ek shakhs woh hai, jo iffat wa paakdaamni yaani haraamkaari se bachne ke liye nikaah kare. (Tirmizi: 1655)
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Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 54
Aurat Sasuraal Mein Kis Tarah Rahe
Aurat sasuraal mein is baat ka zaroor khayaal rakhe ke kisi ki be adabi na ho, agarche naya ghar, naye log hone ki wajah se jee na lage, lekin jee ko samjhaana chaahiye, na ke wahaan rone baith gayi aur jab dekho baithi ro rahi hai. Aate der nahein huwi aur jaane ka taqaaza shuru kar diya. Agar sasuraal mein koi baat buri aur naagawaar lage to maike mein aakar chugli aur shikaayat na karo, sasuraal ki zara zara si baat aa kar maa se kehna aur maa ka khod khod kar poochna bahot hi buri baat hai, isi se ladaaiyaan hoti hain. Jhagde hote hain, is ke siwa aur koi faaida nahein hota. Agar shohar ke maa baap zinda hoon aur woh rupya paisa sab un ko de, tumhaare haath mein na rakhe, to kuch bura na maano. Balke agar tum ko de bhi tab bhi aqalmandi ki baat yeh hai ke tum apne haath mein na lo aur yeh kaho ke un hi ko de taake un ka dil maila na ho aur tum ko bura na kahein ke bahu ne ladke ko apne phande mein kar liya.
Aurat sasuraal mein is baat ka zaroor khayaal rakhe ke kisi ki be adabi na ho, agarche naya ghar, naye log hone ki wajah se jee na lage, lekin jee ko samjhaana chaahiye, na ke wahaan rone baith gayi aur jab dekho baithi ro rahi hai. Aate der nahein huwi aur jaane ka taqaaza shuru kar diya. Agar sasuraal mein koi baat buri aur naagawaar lage to maike mein aakar chugli aur shikaayat na karo, sasuraal ki zara zara si baat aa kar maa se kehna aur maa ka khod khod kar poochna bahot hi buri baat hai, isi se ladaaiyaan hoti hain. Jhagde hote hain, is ke siwa aur koi faaida nahein hota. Agar shohar ke maa baap zinda hoon aur woh rupya paisa sab un ko de, tumhaare haath mein na rakhe, to kuch bura na maano. Balke agar tum ko de bhi tab bhi aqalmandi ki baat yeh hai ke tum apne haath mein na lo aur yeh kaho ke un hi ko de taake un ka dil maila na ho aur tum ko bura na kahein ke bahu ne ladke ko apne phande mein kar liya.
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