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Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 54
Aurat Sasuraal Mein Kis Tarah Rahe
Aurat sasuraal mein is baat ka zaroor khayaal rakhe ke kisi ki be adabi na ho, agarche naya ghar, naye log hone ki wajah se jee na lage, lekin jee ko samjhaana chaahiye, na ke wahaan rone baith gayi aur jab dekho baithi ro rahi hai. Aate der nahein huwi aur jaane ka taqaaza shuru kar diya. Agar sasuraal mein koi baat buri aur naagawaar lage to maike mein aakar chugli aur shikaayat na karo, sasuraal ki zara zara si baat aa kar maa se kehna aur maa ka khod khod kar poochna bahot hi buri baat hai, isi se ladaaiyaan hoti hain. Jhagde hote hain, is ke siwa aur koi faaida nahein hota. Agar shohar ke maa baap zinda hoon aur woh rupya paisa sab un ko de, tumhaare haath mein na rakhe, to kuch bura na maano. Balke agar tum ko de bhi tab bhi aqalmandi ki baat yeh hai ke tum apne haath mein na lo aur yeh kaho ke un hi ko de taake un ka dil maila na ho aur tum ko bura na kahein ke bahu ne ladke ko apne phande mein kar liya.
Aurat sasuraal mein is baat ka zaroor khayaal rakhe ke kisi ki be adabi na ho, agarche naya ghar, naye log hone ki wajah se jee na lage, lekin jee ko samjhaana chaahiye, na ke wahaan rone baith gayi aur jab dekho baithi ro rahi hai. Aate der nahein huwi aur jaane ka taqaaza shuru kar diya. Agar sasuraal mein koi baat buri aur naagawaar lage to maike mein aakar chugli aur shikaayat na karo, sasuraal ki zara zara si baat aa kar maa se kehna aur maa ka khod khod kar poochna bahot hi buri baat hai, isi se ladaaiyaan hoti hain. Jhagde hote hain, is ke siwa aur koi faaida nahein hota. Agar shohar ke maa baap zinda hoon aur woh rupya paisa sab un ko de, tumhaare haath mein na rakhe, to kuch bura na maano. Balke agar tum ko de bhi tab bhi aqalmandi ki baat yeh hai ke tum apne haath mein na lo aur yeh kaho ke un hi ko de taake un ka dil maila na ho aur tum ko bura na kahein ke bahu ne ladke ko apne phande mein kar liya.
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Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 53
Haraam Kaamon Se Apne Bachchon Ko Bachaayein
Shari'at ne jin cheezon ko haraam qaraar diya hai, un se apne bachchon ko bachaayein, jaise naach gaane, music wagaira, un ko sunne se hamesha mana karte rahein aur un ke saamne in cheezon ke dunya aur aakhirat ke zabardast nuqsaanaat ko samjhaayein aur un se nafrat dilaayein. Kyun ke bachpan mein jab in cheezon ki aadat pad jaati hai, to woh akheer umr tak baaqi rehti hai. Naach gaane aur music wagaira ke ta'alluq se
Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Is ummat mein bhi zameen mein dhansaaye jaane, chehre bigaad diye jaane aur patthron ki baarish hone ka azaab naazil hoga, ek shakhs ne arz kiya: ya Rasoolallah! aisa kab hoga? Aap ne farmaaya: Jab gaane waaliyon aur gaane baaje ka riwaaj hoga aur sharaab pi jaayeingi. (Tirmizi: 2212)
Ek Hadees mein farmaaya: Allah ne mujh ko poori duniya ke liye rahmat aur haadi bana kar bheja hai aur mujhe gaane baaje aur music wagaira ko mitaane ka hukm diya hai. (Musnade Ahmed: 22307)
Kitni afsoos ki baat hai ke jin cheezon ko mitaane ka hukm Allah ne apne Nabi ko diya, ham raat din usi ko baja kar use badhaawa dete hain.
Shari'at ne jin cheezon ko haraam qaraar diya hai, un se apne bachchon ko bachaayein, jaise naach gaane, music wagaira, un ko sunne se hamesha mana karte rahein aur un ke saamne in cheezon ke dunya aur aakhirat ke zabardast nuqsaanaat ko samjhaayein aur un se nafrat dilaayein. Kyun ke bachpan mein jab in cheezon ki aadat pad jaati hai, to woh akheer umr tak baaqi rehti hai. Naach gaane aur music wagaira ke ta'alluq se
Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Is ummat mein bhi zameen mein dhansaaye jaane, chehre bigaad diye jaane aur patthron ki baarish hone ka azaab naazil hoga, ek shakhs ne arz kiya: ya Rasoolallah! aisa kab hoga? Aap ne farmaaya: Jab gaane waaliyon aur gaane baaje ka riwaaj hoga aur sharaab pi jaayeingi. (Tirmizi: 2212)
Ek Hadees mein farmaaya: Allah ne mujh ko poori duniya ke liye rahmat aur haadi bana kar bheja hai aur mujhe gaane baaje aur music wagaira ko mitaane ka hukm diya hai. (Musnade Ahmed: 22307)
Kitni afsoos ki baat hai ke jin cheezon ko mitaane ka hukm Allah ne apne Nabi ko diya, ham raat din usi ko baja kar use badhaawa dete hain.
Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 52
Apne Ghar Waalon Ke Saath Kuch Na Kuch Waqt Zaroor Guzaarein
Aaj kal is masroofiyat waala daur main aksar aisa hota hai ke aksar o bashtar log din bhar ghar se baahar rahta hain aur der raat waapas aate hain aur so jaate hain, yah tareeqa theek nahein hai, is se zindagi pheeki pad jaati hai, shaam ko ghar jaldi lautein aur apne ghar waalon ke saath kuch waqt guzaarain aur biwi bachchon ki dildaari ka saamaan faraaham karain
Hadees mein hai ke Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ka yeh maamool tha ke woh rozaana Asar ke baad apni har ek biwi ke ghar jaate aur un se mulaaqaat farmaate. (Bukhari: 5268)
Aaj kal is masroofiyat waala daur main aksar aisa hota hai ke aksar o bashtar log din bhar ghar se baahar rahta hain aur der raat waapas aate hain aur so jaate hain, yah tareeqa theek nahein hai, is se zindagi pheeki pad jaati hai, shaam ko ghar jaldi lautein aur apne ghar waalon ke saath kuch waqt guzaarain aur biwi bachchon ki dildaari ka saamaan faraaham karain
Hadees mein hai ke Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ka yeh maamool tha ke woh rozaana Asar ke baad apni har ek biwi ke ghar jaate aur un se mulaaqaat farmaate. (Bukhari: 5268)
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