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Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 41
Khade Hokar Khaana Peena Bahot Bura Hai, Khaana Baith Kar Khaana Sunnat Hai
Aaj kal sab se ziyaada naapasandeeda aur makrooh tareeqa yeh chal pada hai, jo aksar shaadi biyaah ke mauqe par nazar aata hai ke khaane ke liye Buffet System rakha jaata hai, jis mein table wagaira par mukhtalif qism ke pakwaan saja diye jaate hain aur daawat mein aane waale log wahaan aakar khade khade balke chalte huwe khaate peete reahte hain aur isi ko fashion aur taraqqi ka zariya samajhte hain, isi tarah khade khade ya chalte huwe khaana darasal jaanwaron ka tareeqa tha, jis ko ab bahot se insaan bhi apna rahe hain, yeh saraasar Islaami tehzeeb ke khilaaf hai, is tareeqe ne to khaane peene ke baare mein shari'at ki jitni hidaayaat thein, sab ko kuchal kar rakh diya hai, Hadees mein khade khade khaane peene se bahot sakhti ke saath roka gaya hai.
Hazrat Anas Raziyallahu Anhu bayaan karte hain ke Rasulullah ļ·ŗ ne khade ho kar paani peene se mana kiya hai, is par Hazrat Anas Raziyallahu Anhu ke shaagird Hazrat Qataada ne poochha ke khade ho kar khaana kaisa hai? Hazrat Anas Raziyallahu Anhu ne jawaab diya: "Ų°َŁِŁَ Ų£َŲ“َŲ±ُّ ŁَŲ£َŁْŲØَŲ«ْ" yaani khade hokar khaana, khade hokar peene ke muqaable mein aur bhi ziyaada bura aur ganda amal hai. (MusLim: 5275)
Neez Nabiye Kareem ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Main is tarah khaata hoon jis tarah gulaam khaata hai aur is tareeqe se peeta hoon jis tarah gulaam peeta hai. (Kanzul Ummal: 40708)
Aur zaahir hai ke gulaam apne maalik ke saamne aise tareeqa par khaata peeta hai ke jis mein takabbur aur badaai ki thodi si bhi jhalak nazar nahein aati balke tawaazo paayi jaati hai aur yeh baith kar khaane se hi haasil ho sakti hai, isi liye Rasulullah ļ·ŗ baith kar khaana khaate the, lihaaza maaloom huwa ke sunnat tareeqe ke mutaabiq baith kar khaana khaana shareefon ki aadat hai. is liye hamein bhi sunnat ki ittiba karte huwe baith kar khaana chaahiye.
Aaj kal sab se ziyaada naapasandeeda aur makrooh tareeqa yeh chal pada hai, jo aksar shaadi biyaah ke mauqe par nazar aata hai ke khaane ke liye Buffet System rakha jaata hai, jis mein table wagaira par mukhtalif qism ke pakwaan saja diye jaate hain aur daawat mein aane waale log wahaan aakar khade khade balke chalte huwe khaate peete reahte hain aur isi ko fashion aur taraqqi ka zariya samajhte hain, isi tarah khade khade ya chalte huwe khaana darasal jaanwaron ka tareeqa tha, jis ko ab bahot se insaan bhi apna rahe hain, yeh saraasar Islaami tehzeeb ke khilaaf hai, is tareeqe ne to khaane peene ke baare mein shari'at ki jitni hidaayaat thein, sab ko kuchal kar rakh diya hai, Hadees mein khade khade khaane peene se bahot sakhti ke saath roka gaya hai.
Hazrat Anas Raziyallahu Anhu bayaan karte hain ke Rasulullah ļ·ŗ ne khade ho kar paani peene se mana kiya hai, is par Hazrat Anas Raziyallahu Anhu ke shaagird Hazrat Qataada ne poochha ke khade ho kar khaana kaisa hai? Hazrat Anas Raziyallahu Anhu ne jawaab diya: "Ų°َŁِŁَ Ų£َŲ“َŲ±ُّ ŁَŲ£َŁْŲØَŲ«ْ" yaani khade hokar khaana, khade hokar peene ke muqaable mein aur bhi ziyaada bura aur ganda amal hai. (MusLim: 5275)
Neez Nabiye Kareem ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Main is tarah khaata hoon jis tarah gulaam khaata hai aur is tareeqe se peeta hoon jis tarah gulaam peeta hai. (Kanzul Ummal: 40708)
Aur zaahir hai ke gulaam apne maalik ke saamne aise tareeqa par khaata peeta hai ke jis mein takabbur aur badaai ki thodi si bhi jhalak nazar nahein aati balke tawaazo paayi jaati hai aur yeh baith kar khaane se hi haasil ho sakti hai, isi liye Rasulullah ļ·ŗ baith kar khaana khaate the, lihaaza maaloom huwa ke sunnat tareeqe ke mutaabiq baith kar khaana khaana shareefon ki aadat hai. is liye hamein bhi sunnat ki ittiba karte huwe baith kar khaana chaahiye.
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Tohfa-e-Nikaah Part - 40
Maal Wa Daulat Ko Zaaye Aur Barbaad Karna Allah Ko Pasand Nahein Hai
Insaan yeh samajhta hai ke maal wa daulat yeh mahaz us ki mehnat ka nateeja hai, isi liye shaadi biyaah aur doosri taqreebaat mein dil khol kar fuzool kharchi karta hai, lekin yaad rakhiye ke insaan ka yeh khayaal galat hai, maal wa daulat ka milna mahaz Allah ka fazl-o-karam hai, woh jis ko chaahta hai bharpoor maal wa daulat se nawaaz deta hai, goya yeh maal wa daulat Allah ki taraf se us ke paas amaanat hai, isi liye fuzool kaamon mein maal udaana Allah ki ne'mat ki naaqadri bhi hai aur fuzool kharchi bhi aur Allah ko fuzool kharchi sakht na pasand hai.
Qur'aan-e-Kareem mein Allah Ta'ala farmaate hain: Yaad rakho ke Allah fuzool kharchi karne waalon ko pasand nahein karta. (Sura-e-A'raaf: 31)
Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Allah Ta'ala ne tumhaare liye 3 cheezon ko naapasand kiya, qeel wa qaal (beja bahas wa mubaahasa) ko, maal zaaye karne ko, aur beja sawaalaat ko. (Bukhari: 1477)
Insaan yeh samajhta hai ke maal wa daulat yeh mahaz us ki mehnat ka nateeja hai, isi liye shaadi biyaah aur doosri taqreebaat mein dil khol kar fuzool kharchi karta hai, lekin yaad rakhiye ke insaan ka yeh khayaal galat hai, maal wa daulat ka milna mahaz Allah ka fazl-o-karam hai, woh jis ko chaahta hai bharpoor maal wa daulat se nawaaz deta hai, goya yeh maal wa daulat Allah ki taraf se us ke paas amaanat hai, isi liye fuzool kaamon mein maal udaana Allah ki ne'mat ki naaqadri bhi hai aur fuzool kharchi bhi aur Allah ko fuzool kharchi sakht na pasand hai.
Qur'aan-e-Kareem mein Allah Ta'ala farmaate hain: Yaad rakho ke Allah fuzool kharchi karne waalon ko pasand nahein karta. (Sura-e-A'raaf: 31)
Rasoolullah ļ·ŗ ne farmaaya: Allah Ta'ala ne tumhaare liye 3 cheezon ko naapasand kiya, qeel wa qaal (beja bahas wa mubaahasa) ko, maal zaaye karne ko, aur beja sawaalaat ko. (Bukhari: 1477)
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